Γυναίκα υποστηρίζει πως έχασε τις φίλες της εξαιτίας της ομορφιάς της

Λένε πως όσες πόρτες μπορεί να ανοίξει η ομορφιά, άλλες τόσες μπορεί να κλείσει. Αυτό φαίνεται να πιστεύει και η 40χρονη Jane Curnoew η οποία όπως υποστηρίζει δεν έχει πια φίλες επειδή εκείνες τη ζήλευαν για την ομορφιά της.

Μιλώντας στο news.com.au, περιγράφει πως μετά το τέλος του δεύτερου γάμου της ξεκίνησε να βγαίνει με άλλους άνδρες ενώ συνειδητοποίησε πόσο σημαντική ήταν για αυτούς.

#tbt April 2012. 45 years young. A glamour photo

shoot just for fun. The old Jane that I don't even recognise!! Her life is about to turn upside down; so weird when you look at old photos and you know what is ahead in life but the you in the photo doesn't have a clue!! . This is 5 months before I started my transformation and bodybuilding journey. Skinny fat, lost, depressed, partying &drinking way too much, behaving badly and abusing my body. But still at the gym 4 times a week... spin &boxing classes were my thing back then and I am on the verge of my serious hip injury. An injury that saw me endure incredible pain for the next 5 months. A cortisone injection into the left hip socket was the end result and no more cardio!! I was beside myself.. I was dragged kicking, screaming and crying into the weights room for rehab... And so my love affair with weight training and my body begins ❤️ . #glamourphotoshoot #throwbackthursday #skinnyfat #oldme #photoshoot #injury #hipinjury #labraltear #changeoflife #changeofdirection #rehabtraining #injuryrecovery #glamourmodel #glamourphoto #noidea #whatwasithinking #fortyandfabulous #over40andfabulous

A post shared by Jane Curnow (@janecurnow) on May 25, 2017 at 2:50am PDT

«Οι γυναίκες εξακολουθούν να είναι εχθρικές απέναντι μου και γι' αυτό ευθύνεται η εξωτερική μου εμφάνιση. Παλαιότερα νόμιζα ότι έφταιγα εγώ, αργότερα όμως φάνηκε η αλήθεια. Πηγαίναμε σε μπαρ και τα βλέμματα έπεφταν πάντα πάνω μου», αναφέρει η ίδια.

Στην ηλικία των 32 η Curnow διαγνώστηκε με κατάθλιψη. Για δέκα χρόνια βίωνε τα συμπτώματα στο μέγιστο βαθμό.

«Όταν συνειδητοποίησα τη δύναμη της εμφάνισής μου δεν ένιωθα ικανοποίηση αλλά ένα αίσθημα απίστευτης πίεσης να γίνω ακόμα πιο όμορφη. Ρωτούσα τον εαυτό μου γιατί εγώ νιώθω τόσο δυστυχισμένη αφού όλοι με θεωρούν τόσο όμορφη; Κατέληξα στο συμπέρασμα πως αν δεν αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου έτσι όπως ακριβώς είναι δεν θα νιώσεις ποτέ διαφορετικός», συνεχίζει.

Η Curnow στα 51 της πλέον χρόνια εργάζεται ως μοντέλο ενώ αναλαμβάνει να διδάξει τις γυναίκες πώς να αγκαλιάσουν το σώμα τους και να εκτιμήσουν το εσωτερικό της ψυχής τους. Η Jane στο κείμενο αναφέρει επίσης τον καθοριστικό ρόλο που έπαιξε το bodybuilding στη ζωή και την ψυχική της ανάταση.

Honored and humbled to be featured on @fit_over_50_ There is a growing number of us that are approaching midlife in a non traditional way. Who says turning 50 is the beginning to the end of life?? My life is only just beginning!!!! . . #Repost @fit_over_50_ (@get_repost) ・・・ We often hear people say how their gym time this their therapy and Jane is proof that fitness transformation is not just new muscle, it's a shift in your mind , body, and soul. Jane is 51, and she was very honest to share this: "Bodybuilding literally saved my life. I was clinically depressed, 2 attempts on my life.. and with low self worth clearly. And here I am over 50 on top of the world!! You are never too old to turn your life around. You simply cannot go wrong with health &fitness!!

A post shared by Jane Curnow (@janecurnow) on Oct 24, 2017 at 2:34pm PDT

Ten things I do to cope with stress and negativity. . 1️⃣Workout. My training is so much more than physical. It's my therapy! 2️⃣Get out into nature. Sunshine, sunrise, birds, water, trees. 3️⃣Deep breathes. Or just become conscious of my breathing. 4️⃣Play, cuddle, spend time with my fur babies. 5️⃣Sleep. And I fall asleep with subliminal affirmations. 6️⃣No TV. No news. No radio. No media! 7️⃣See my energetic healer. 8️⃣Get my nails done 9️⃣Take a bath Listen to one of my inspirational/motivational gurus. . It's been a challenging week on numerous levels. For the first time since I have declared myself fully recovered I have felt overwhelmed. But now I have a tool box of tricks that I can pull out to ride me through tough times. Everything in life is only temporary; we need to learn to dance in the storm until the sun rises again. And I will rise again too! I didn't come this far to only come this far!!! Setbacks only mean the comeback is on its way stronger than ever!!! . .

A post shared by Jane Curnow (@janecurnow) on Nov 2, 2017 at 2:22am PDT

Ten things I do to stay focused, disciplined and committed to my fitness goals. 1️⃣I fuel my body with premium food, supplementation and filtered water. 2️⃣In turn I stabilise my blood sugar levels to keep my emotions in check and eliminate cravings. 3️⃣I practice mindfulness and gratitude. 4️⃣I eliminate all forms of main stream media. 5️⃣I get plenty of sleep. 6️⃣I engage a pro team who are committed to supporting me achieve my goals. 7️⃣I relish in the journey and enjoy the process with patience and persistence. 8️⃣I am consistent and tenacious with my habits. 9️⃣I prioritise my time and money accordingly. I feed my mind with positivity and inspiration eliminating all negative influences. . This is a girl who suffered debilitating depression, substance addictions, suicidal tendencies, hated herself and her body and whose life was in complete disarray. To say the woman in this photo went through a transformation is an understatement!! If you had asked me 5 years ago how I would celebrate my 50th I would have said in a coffin!! What a journey I have been blessed with ❤️If I can do this anyone can!! . . @womenshealthaus @gorgomag @womensfitnessmag @oxygenmagau @nxtlvlactivewear

A post shared by Jane Curnow (@janecurnow) on Oct 5, 2017 at 3:00am PDT

#tbt September 2016. Celebrating my 50th birthday on stage and my declaration to the world that I am fully recovered from life long depression!! 12 months ago this weekend!! ❤️ . Why do we women obsess about the decade birthday...? I was beyond depressed for my 30th and suicidal for my 40th. I was determined to welcome my 50th in true new Jane fashion and symbolic of my recovery. Bodybuilding literally saved my life!!! . .

A post shared by Jane Curnow (@janecurnow) on Sep 21, 2017 at 3:21am PDT

Winter walk outfit. ❄️No sunrise today with cloud cover so very cold! No matter the weather getting out into the fresh air does wonders for our Stone Age bodies. We are so shut off from Mother Nature in our technological, modern lives that it affects our health and emotions. We tend to forget that our bodies are relatively the same as our cave men ancestors who spent most of their time outdoors. Ever wondered why you feel so good after a walk in the park, beach, bush? Sitting under a tree, feeling the suns rays will do wonders for your wellbeing. Make an outdoor walk part of your health regime and you can't go wrong. A morning walk will ensure you start your day off on the right foot ☀️ ❄️ ‍♀️ . #fitnessmodel #morningwalk #morningenergy #walkforlife #walkforhealth #freshairtherapy #freshair #lifestylecoach #healthcoach #mindsetcoach #bodylovecoach #healthylifestyle #healthregime #healthiswealth #walk #walkinthepark #outdoortherapy #getupearly #startthedaywell

A post shared by Jane Curnow (@janecurnow) on Aug 28, 2017 at 7:49pm PDT

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